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- Self-Care Essentials: When was the last time you invested in yourself as a parent or pastor? (Blog post transcribed from the Brilliantly Brave Parenting Podcast with special guest – Paige Clingenpeel – season 5)
Parenting is exhausting, the idea that we can just persevere through it is a bit simplistic. We need to rest. We need to recharge and refocus. As parents we can’t give what we don’t have, our modeling and ability to teach our kids will be profoundly impacted by the energy we have to give them.
Listening is a huge part of parenting, “listening is the key to starting communication” both with our kids and our spouses. It conveys the reality of love and respect unlike any other behavior. We can’t listen without some energy, it’s exhausting to be ‘in the moment’ with our kids. We often lack the ‘bandwidth’ to be with our kids after a hard day of work.
Listening and being available for our kids is one of the hardest things we can ever attempt to do on a regular basis. Our lives are so full and busy, we need to practice ‘self-care’ if we ever hope to be fresh and focused for our parenting responsibilities.
Self-Care requires healthy habits, resting well at night, making space in our schedules to spend time with our families, watching our diet and exercise, and of course saying ‘no’ to other things to be sure we’re involved with our kids. We can’t offer what we don’t have.
Jesus modeled this idea when he would retreat from the crowds and the disciples to go apart and pray. He would withdraw to the mountains as often as he could, knowing the essential nature of rest and refreshment spiritually, physically, emotionally. We are no different.
YouTube Link: https://youtu.be/TBaUkmOy2QA
Notes and Quotes from our Podcast Interview with Paige:
- Topic: “Self-Care” and Parenting-Self-care seems selfish, but it’s actually essential for parents to make time to recharge.
- Modeling behaviors like ‘respect’ and love’ are vital for parents to show their kids
- Listening is the ‘key’ to starting communication.
- Parents need to not only take time for themselves, but they need to cultivate a trustworthy group of friends and mentors to gain perspective and encouragement from.
- Surround yourself with truth-seekers and truth-speakers.
- Self-care is creating space for God
About Paige Clingenpeel LMHC
A mental health therapist with extensive experience in working with families, Paige has a passion for those in the middle of parenting pre-teens and teens, Paige offers an encouraging perspective for parents who are feeling worn out. Her insights and speaking engagements are welcomed nationally at youth retreats and ministry events. Mother of four kids herself, Paige’s advice is formed from her own practical life experiences.
Check out Paige’s podcast interview and find out ‘whats going on in your kids head!”
Find out more: Paigeclingenpeel.com / TrendsandTeens.com / iMom.com